Year 2013- A good start

I am turning 26 this year. Since 2009, there were many changes to my life. Of course, I am married. I was struggling in last post on who should I choose to be with and give up.


Love - Relationship
I finally settle down with Jeffrey. The guy who love me and I love him. No kid yet. We just tied our knot last year June 2012. Although, we just got married, we behave like old couple. So old that we don't celebrate our first valentine as married couple. I am kinda upset but still I am part to blame too as I always expect him to plan everything. Plus my temper is getting bad to worse. I think as I age, I get irritated when things are no plan the way I expect. I need to change and keep myself cool before my action.

Career - Job
I am working. Routine job as an administrator. We call it office lady. I am giving myself more options on the kind of jobs I wan to explore. At the age of 26 and married, I think the choices of jobs decreases. Especially, when you are planning for baby / babies. Still I do not wish that to be a reason for not finding my ideal job.

Family - in laws
Yes. I am married, so I have in laws. My Mother-in-Law, Father-in-Law, Brother-in-Law and Sister-in-Law ,and Niece-in-law. I stayed with my husband for more than 1 year before we got married. So I some how got use to the family culture. I must admit that every family has it own kind of culture and thinking. I grow up in a independent environment where my brother and I depend on ourselves for our daily meals and needs. This would include studies too. I support myself to study degree and luckily with the help of my uncle I pull it through. However, I am still carrying debts. Not serious debts. A debt that I can handle, yet not so easy as expected. Anyway, my husand's family members are alright. Despite staying with them for long, I am still not use to the culture. I am not exactly a good daughter-in-law. Like I mentioned, i have my temper too. Of course, I vet my displease in front of them (expect for portraying my black-face). I respect them as parents because I saw many positive things in them that I don't see in my own father. The distance between my dad and myself are further away ever since I got married. I cant remember when was the last time when I went back home, nor call my dad. I am such a... hmm I don know how to explained.


Right now, I am facing power failure in office. I think I better get going now.

Cheers.